10 Secrets To Abundant Love (Part 2)

Today I will continue with the next 3 secrets of Abundant Love. I use "he" as the 3rd person as it is easier to write this way, as in Chinese we do not separate the gender, but the secrets are for both gender.


Secret 4 - The Power of Friendship

If you want to find true love, you have to find true friendship first. True love should not only consist of Romance, but should also includes cares and being there for him.

Love is not staring into each other eyes, but looking out towards the same direction together. When you truly love a person, you must love him in person, and not only his appearance. Love prosper on the basis of friendship, and therefore if you want to bring love into a relationship, you must first bring in the friendship.

For a lasting love, friendship is the most important element. When you are having doubt whether he is the one you love, just ask yourself "Is he my best friend?", and if the answer is negative, then you have to seriously consider this relationship before you make a commitment.



Secret 5 - The Power of Touch

Touch is the strongest representation of Love. It can break the barrier of human interaction, and link 2 person closely together.

There was an interesting experiment done in London. Normally the night before a patient went for operation, the doctor would go to the patient and explain the operation procedures and answer their questions. In this experiment, the doctor would hold the hands of the patients when talking to them. Results showed that those patients that the doctor held their hands on average recovered 3 times faster than other patients.

The power of touch can heal a person physically and give warmth to their heart. And the moment you spread out your arms, you have at the same time open up yourself for embrace.



Secret 6 - The Power of Letting Go

If you love something, give it freedom. If it returns to your side, then it belongs to you. Otherwise, it does not belongs to you. Even in a very stable relationship, you still need to give each other personal spaces.

If we wanted to love how to love, we must first learn how to be forgiving, and at the same time, letting go all the hurts and pains we suffered in the past.

Love is to let go of our fear, our perception and our own limiting beliefs. We must learn to let go of our bias perception, to understand a person first before we judge them. Furthermore, we must let go of our ego. Ego is the biggest obstacle to a loving relationship. Why focus on winning an argument if it hurts the relationship? Sometimes it is better to be kind than to be right.

We also must learn to let go of our anger and hatred. The way to do it is to forgive. Everybody will makes mistakes in their life. Nobody is perfect. As we hope that others will forgive us for our mistakes, we should forgive others as well.


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These are the next 3 secrets of abundant love. I will finished all the remaining 4 secrets in my next article.

Just to clarify, the little old china man is the fictitious character in the story book who appears to know everything, and helps the young man to find the secrets to Abundant love. He is mysterious as nobody knows who he is, and he always appear and disappear without leaving a trace. But he is ever so kind and loving. He is a combination of all the great knowledge and persons in real life who have learned the secrets.

Do check back often for the last 4 secrets of love, and after that I will start on the 10 Secrets to Abundant Happiness!

Cheers!!



Dreams unleashed,

Albert Lee
Pursue Your Dreams

10 Secrets To Abundant Love (Part 1)

Today I would like to share the first 3 secrets in Adam J. Jackson's "Secrets of Abundant Love". As my book is in Chinese, and I cannot find the details on internet, I will try my best to translate them back to English. If any of you have read the original English version, do not hesitate to correct me.


10 Secrets of Abundant Love by Adam J. Jackson


Secret 1 - The Power of Thoughts

Love starts from our thought. It does not happen by chance. It is our loving thought that creates the love experience and relationship, and we can become who we want to be.

You can change your negative thoughts on love by writing down the positive side of it and read it loud and firm everyday. If you love a person, you must put yourself in that person's shoes, understand his or her needs and wishes.

You must have a clear idea of how you want your future partner to be like. Is she tall or short? What hobbies does she has? Is she the sporty type? What religion does she has? If you do not have a clear idea, then you will be easily attracted by physical attraction and ended up with the wrong person.


Secret 2 - The Power of Respect

You will not be able to love without learning how to respect. And the first person you need to respect is YOURSELF! The first step to self respect is to ask yourself, "Which part of me is worth respecting or liking?" As long as you think hard enough, there will definitely be something about yourself that you feel good about.

Next is to respect others, especially those that you do not like. Ask yourself "which aspect of this person is worth my respect?" When you ask this question, more often than not, you will find one or two aspect of the person that worth your respect.

Therefore, only after you learned how to respect will you be capable of truly love a person.


Secret 3 - The Power of Giving

If you want to receive love, you must first give your love. The more you give, the more you will receive. When you smile at someone, the person will smile back at you. It is the same for love.

You must give your love wholeheartedly and without conditions. When you get into a relationship, ask yourself what can you give and do for her, and not asking what she can give or do for you.

The secret to happiness, longevity and love is to focus on what you can give.


That's the first 3 secrets to Abundant Love. Please feels free to comment and let me know what you think. Personally I love the story a lot, it touches my heart and I strongly recommend you to buy the book if possible, so that you can feel the love of the "Little Old China Man"!!

I will write the next other secrets in the coming days. Stay tune...


Cheers!


Dreams unleashed,

Albert Lee
Pursue Your Dreams

The Richest Man In Babylon

Today I have just uploaded an ebook "The Richest Man In Babylon", and if you are on my subscription list, you will receive my email to the download page soon. I will be searching for more great books to share with you guys so lookout for more emails in the coming weeks!

I first heard of "The Richest Man In Babylon" from Jim Rohn's "The Art of Exceptional Living", where he recommended this book to read.

I bought it from my local bookstore. It was a small book with 144 pages. The story revealed the secrets of how Arkad the richest man In Babylon, through his simple wealth management and financial planning, acquired more gold than a country itself. His secrets are simple, concise and easy to follow.

It is a great inspiring book that worth reading over and over again. ^_^


By the way, I am currently reading a Chinese book translated from Adam J Jackson's "Secrets of Abundant Love", "Secrets of Abundant Happiness", "Secrets of Abundant Health" and "Secrets of Abundant Wealth".

Yes, the book I read is a combination of all his 4 out of print books, together called "Secrets Collection". I tried to search for the books on the internet, but as the books are out of print, I couldn't find any place that shares the secrets taught.

So I decided to share the secrets inside the book on my blog for the next few days, and let us all learn and benefit from the secrets together!

Do check back my blog often or subscribe to my blog feeds to get the latest updates.


Cheers!


Dreams unleashed,

Albert Lee
Pursue Your Dreams

Harry Potter And His Two Sides

Today I went to watch Harry Potter with my girlfriend. Inside there was a scene where it left a deep impression on me.

Going towards the end of the movie, the evil Lord Voldemort went into the body of Harry Potter and tried to "corrupt him" to become an evil person. While Harry was struggling with the evil within, Dumbledore said to him "Everybody has both side of good and evil inside them. You just need to choose to be on the good side" (I paraphrase it because I cannot remember the exact words, sorry.. but the meaning is the same)

At the end, Harry was able to overcome the evil by focusing on love and friendship in his life.

We all have a choice to choose the path to take, to be good or evil.

I choose to be good, and happy, and loving, and healthy and wealthy.. hahaa.. yes I am greedy, I love to live an exceptional life, I hope you are too!!

Cheers!!!


Dreams unleashed,

Albert Lee
Pursue Your Dreams

An Inspiring Story Of Lisa Diane

Today I would like to share an inspiring story of Lisa Diane.

Lisa lost her business in the early 90's and everything with it, her car repossessed, her house on the brink of foreclosure and she was having more than $50,000 in credit cards debt (I can relate to this).

But she has never give up her dreams, she kept searching for secrets of success, and eventually turned her life around and started a business that generated over $653,000 within six months!

So I sincerely recommend you to read more about Lisa Diane's Success Story on the Nightingale-Conant website and get inspired.

Cheers!


Dreams unleashed,

Albert Lee
Pursue Your Dreams

A New Goal, A New Life!

I always believed that everything happens for a reason, and the results will always benefit me. I believed that there is always a lesson to learn from everything.


Today is my 31st birthday. On this very special day, I have set a goal to achieve before my next birthday. It is a very simple goal. But I have been struggling with the reasons for hours. There are only 3 things to set a goal. What? Why? and How?


Out of the 3 things, the most important is the reasons. The reasons are the motivation to pursue the goal and the strength to persist on when you met with obstacles and setback. Without a strong reason, you will not be able to carry on until the end... This is also one of the reason why I did not achieve my previous goal.


And now, I would like to commit myself here publicly in my blog, with you as my witness.


My Goal :

To earn a total of S$250,000 from Internet through affiliate marketing by 18 July 2008

My Reasons :

1. My girlfriend has always believed in me wholeheartedly that I will become very successful with my internet business. She is always there for me, trusting me and supporting me. I wanted to repay her love and trust by achieving my goal, to prove to myself and show her that she has placed her trust in the right person.


2. Until today, I am still having a total of $80,000 in credit card debts, car loan and study loan. Achieving my goal will allow me to pay off all of them, and truly enjoys the life of FREEDOM, the freedom where you do not owe anybody anything, the freedom to spend money without feeling guilty, the freedom of owning my life 100%!! Yeah!!


3. I wanted my parents to be proud of me. They do not understand internet, and they always thought that I am playing games whenever I turn on my computer. Although I have explained to them that I am doing internet business, I can feel their doubts, especially when they ask me to "Stop Playing and go to sleep" every time I am doing my marketing late into the night. If I can show them the $250,000 that I earned online, they will not only believed, they will be proud of me for this amount of money! So I MUST achieved my goal to show my parents.


I have written down my one goal and the 3 reasons for it. I did not set $1 million, because I cannot convince myself that I can achieve that in a year. (Remember SMART?) $250,000 is very difficult, but I have a silence confidence that I can achieve it..

Please do give me encouragement and support, I need a lot of it! *wink*

Thank you for taking the time to read. Really appreciate it.

You guys are the BEST!

Cheers!



Dreams unleashed,

Albert Lee
Pursue Your Dreams

Counting Down To My Goals

As all of you have noticed, the count down clock at the top of my blog has left with less than 48 hours to go. So, the natural question is, have I achieved all the goals I set down?

Sad to say, no.. I did not achieve them.

Given all the courses I have studied, theories I have applied and knowledge I have acquired, I should have achieved the goals I set down 1 year ago or at the very least, some where near.

But no, I lost my directions few months ago. The reason I put the count down clock, is to remind myself of my goals, but I have chose to ignore it for the past few months.

I need to sit down and reflect for the past 1 year, what have I done and why I lost my direction. Are my goals unrealistic, or are they not big enough for me to get excited?? I have spoken to my gf last night briefly on my problems, and through the conversation I realized that one of my main problem is my conflict of values, which always lead to my own self sabotaging.

When the clock has run down, I will reset it, and I will set a new list of goals. I will spend the next 2 days to thoroughly think through what I wanted and why I wanted to achieve them. I will write them down here in this blog, and I hope all of you will be my witnesses, to help me along this journey to living an exceptional life.

Thank you.



Dreams unleashed,

Albert Lee
Pursue Your Dreams

Can You Create Passion At Will?

In the past few days, I have participated in a thread discussion on how do you sparkle passion.

I have always believed that we all already have a passion for certain things. So it is a very natural process to feel passionate about those things when we come into touch with them. And if you do not like something, then there is no way that you can change that feeling. If you hate swimming, you hate swimming, full stop. But I also believed that some passion will change over time.

But someone in the thread has provided another school of thought. He said that you can get passionate about anything that you do, even those that you hated. You can train your thoughts and feeling to feel passionate for whatever things you wanted to do.

This message actually sparkles a lot of passionate replies!!

Do you really believed that passion can be created? Will it be fake?

Personally I feel that through proper self motivation techniques, you can get enthusiastic and motivated to do anything, including those you hated to do! Yes.. it is a higher level of self control.

But I think that the word passion is special, because it associated with love, and love is something you will not want to share with anything.

What do you think? Do you believed that you can train yourself to become passionate for anything, including things that you hate?

Do leave your comments.

Cheers!


Dreams unleashed,

Albert Lee
Pursue Your Dreams

Law Of Attraction - When Bad Things Happen

Today I would like to share another video from Bob Doyle, one of the speaker in the movie "The Secret"

He explains why bad things happen, even if you think you did not attract it.



My own layman explanation. When you feel good, you attract good things to you. When you feel lousy, you attract bad things.

Yes, it is that simple! :)

Cheers!


Dreams unleashed,

Albert Lee
Pursue Your Dreams